When someone says that they wanna think about it multiple times and the other person is still pushing - for me this is crossing the first boundary.

This is a good reason why we shouldn't immediately assume that silence means guilt

I hate to say it, but this is why you should keep your community at arm’s length and hire outside professionals for help. That “wall” you talked about exists for a good reason and Fen sounds like a walking red flag. People like that should not be indulged or propped up, but good on you for trying to give them a chance. You have a bright light Ross, don’t let people like them dim it. Keep spreading positivity and keep your head up. This is just an insignificant speed bump in the long road of life.

It's hard ngl , as an introvert this feels like a nightmare to me, like imagine every time I have an issue with someone they just go online and tell everyone about it, I think it's natural for us to experience issues and problems and disagreement, we rather solve them or just move on , but getting everyone involved online is kinda scary, like it's my shit to deal with not yours ! anyway I really appreciate being a normal guy having my 2 friends .

My name is Demetrice Wilson. I am a Vis Dev artist working in Los Angeles. I rarely have anything to say on Youtube, but I gotta say this:

this is wild.. he was clearly obsessed with you from the beginning and got frustrated that he couldn’t get as close to you as he planned

The "16 ways to improve" message is creepy as hell. I was willing to give equal weight to both sides until that came up.

"I fucked up and tried to hide it and I apologise" is also the most honest and accountable apology I have seen in a long time on YouTube. Honestly, who hasn't, at one point in their life. We are all just human!

Crazy how some people can ruin others' lives by posting things on social media with missing or edited context and/or proof.

Yikes, he sounds like a mega-fan turned hater pipeline.

This is wild. Somebody trying to destroy what was clearly their personal hero just because they didn't get the attention they wanted... And a professional artist getting pissed at another because their characters are both called "Kid" WTH?

16 bullet points from a stranger on how you can be a better person??? Sane people are not doing that I’m so sorry

This seems like a classic case of an obsessed mega fan whose obsession turned negative now they are negatively obsessed with you. It's unfortunate because they clearly propped you up on a pedestal and the second you tripped up and wasn't perfect, they bounced and had no regard for you as a human with real feelings. If they were a real friend they wouldn't have send that 16 points message. That's insane. Truly.